The most difficult part of peoples life is accepting responsibilities when they make mistakes. The best thing that can happen to any body is to make mistakes and learn from them. In the words of Dr Fuller "Mistakes are only sins when not admitted."
What is experienced when mistakes are made is that most people deny making mistakes and try to cover their mistakes.
Most people tend to blame others or situations for their mistakes. Laying blames will not do you any good but keep you were you are or cost you what you would have learned from that mistake positively.
The more educated people become, the more they feel that they should not make mistakes. Corporate organizations also contribute to making people feel they should not make mistakes. What you notice at this level is justification of why they did what they did.
The only way to progress and gain wisdom is to accept responsibility for whatever has happened. Accept responsibility helps you learn from mistakes and make you a better you. At this stage you learn to have an open mind to the fact that there is something you could learn that caused you the mistake. Here you turn out a much better person with more experience to carry on to the next level.
When you learn from your mistakes, you attain the aha moment of realising that you have better understanding.
If you remain at the of denying, blame laying and justification or fail to accept responsibility, you have only closed the gates of new wisdom.
From now on learn to make mistakes because it will lead you to self awareness.
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